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Dettachment Leads To Happniess And Attachment Leads To Sorrows And Depressions

In any relationshp say- mother and son, husband and wife etc, detachment is a must be situation to welcome the path leading to one's success ladder. In doing so, in a realtionship with any anything, the person in the association always dissociates himself from the his object of the bond of weaknesses. It frees up the mind, the body and the soul and helps a person to focus him/ her on his goals more freely with little indulgences.

In case of associating with the object of the bonding of a relationship, he/she attaches his/her mind, the body and soul and thus reduces the amount of focus, of concentration of his mind and the body and soul from the goals he/she has thought for to achieve.

It takes more time to do a job or achieve his/ her success when a person associates himself/herself with the object of his love. as he becomes weak for his mind would be involved unawarely or unconciously with the object on and off which in turn becomes a overhead to his level of concentration or focus. Slowly, in the long run, these may become the cause of his depressions as when he comes to know about his failures instead of successes. This may become too much once in while depending on the degree of attachment.

The best way to do is, to attach and dettach periodically, as we are human beings and we cannt keep us away from our beloved ones. For example it would be too difficult to remain away from th earn4blog site for many days, but yes one can log on once in a day and update his blog and then log off and may check once again at a later time to check his/ her comments instead of remaining hooked to the site for 24 hours and disrupting all of his/ her daily activities. This may hamper his/ her other activties in his/her professional life .