Some Thoughts...
February 12th, 2009 | 
anjali_prachiMind is fully blank...Don't know why....i feel all of us might get this type of thoughts...when everything seems to be blank...All says that when you'll be overtensed then this type of things happening in life....but what to do this is life...don't know what's going wrong with life...when one problem is about to over then another problem just knocking the door....i've so many questions in mind ....but just thinking what to write and what not to write....lets talk about current life....so after the birth of baby in the family usually all seems to be happy ...if the baby is boy then joy is doubled and if the baby is girl then still parents seems to be happy but grand parents just want another kid in the family for the shake of their family growth....is this correct?
but whatever God has sent we need to accept and usually that happens....after few days everything ok....the baby girl just attached to all family members....and time flows like anything....and then one day she will go to her in-law house....so for that her parents just preparing a lot...sometime the in-laws house is perfect but most of the time it's worse...and this is one woman's life
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That was very emotional. Your words can make the heart leap to the throat. You have the spirit in your heart that you can reproduce in your words. Great .
who cares dear swapna, boy or girl is in the hands of the god. Even if grandparents want boy then also one will not be able to get boy.. It is not a cloth color to select. In India this type of thinking is coming down but well pointed by you the facts...I hope your problems will end soon and your mind becomes normal...
by the by how are u doing?
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Dear Member, your mind is taut with many a mind boggling problems. You are overburdened with humanistic feelings. That's nice but, that makes you an easy target to some tricksters. That is life. In the Indian society male child has been given preference over the ages. They want it for family name and for their after death rituals. They seldom think that the boy will turn out to be a vagrant. They have always high expectations. But, these are certain dreams they have visioned thru their life.
Yes, the female child moves to her in-laws and rear her own life. For that the parents or the guardians have to be sympathetic towards her. She has to be instilled with faith, compassion and loyalty. Binded in the age old tradition they search a suitable boy from their own community, but, they forget that the girl can have a better future with a family of an entirely different trait. That is the tragedy of an Indian girl.
It is not always that the in-laws are wicked or stbborn. They too have their own daughters given in matrimony. They know what are the problems faced by a newly wed. With soft emotions and careful guidance they can absorb the girl in their household, and usually they do. It is the other fistful greedy fellows who give a bad repute to the otherwise healthy society.
Nice Post,friend.
Thanks Vijay... for ur support in my post...now i'm quite ok and ready to face all challenges on my way....i'll read all ur post one by one....i hope u are there in ibibo...yes i'm some one of ibibo if u cud remember me.... :) nice to get you over here....
swapnanjali
Thanks Vijay... for ur support in my post...now i'm quite ok and ready to face all challenges on my way....i'll read all ur post one by one....i hope u are there in ibibo...yes i'm some one of ibibo if u cud remember me.... :) nice to get you over here....
swapnanjali
It is quite true that most of times such social approaches , may be gender biases or family issues , make the mind completely blank ...
Runa N.B.